The Power of Tears

I remember a class discussion in graduate school about the nature of God. The discussion became uncomfortable and heated as people increasingly became more intent on expressing their opinions (which they thought were factually true) than on listening to what others were trying to say. I was caught up in this discussion and trying to …

When Solitude is Harsh

Last winter my ninety-one-year-old mother had a series of mini strokes resulting in a hospital stay followed by weeks in a nursing home. The strokes affected my mother’s physical and cognitive health enough that it seemed likely that her living situation would have to change. My brother and I met with her team of care …

The Best Room

It is the time of year when darkness comes early and stays longer. I hear many people complaining about this time of year. The darkness, the cold, and the dangerous roads impose limitations on our time outside and our time together. I can appreciate these complaints and there are seasons of life that make this …

Fields of Glory

There is a field I pass on my way to work. It changes season to season but always captures my interest and imagination. It is spring right now and the field is packed full of beautiful, vivid yellow flowers. Passing this field literally takes my breath away and makes my heart begin to beat faster. …

All My Being

I can still remember a bar routine I did in a gymnastics practice over forty years ago. I don’t simply recall the skills I did, I remember the way it felt, like I was flying, soaring. My timing was perfect. I could pause in all the right places. It felt light, free, and easy. My …

Slowing Down

Sometimes I get stuck on a Psalm. I spend the first hour of my day in prayer and spiritual reading. I’ve tried different approaches to this time. I’ve tried following the monastic schedule of prayers for each day. I’ve tried praying one Psalm per day, faithfully working my way through the Psalter, one prayer after …

Invitations

When I was five or six years old, I had a neighbor named Mrs. Wonders who lived across the street from me. Mrs. Wonders, who was in her sixties at the time, invited me to visit her any day, any time. She kept a candy dish on the end table closest to the door and …

Jump In!

We had a lot of rain this spring. So much, that the roads were flooded on several occasions. The flooding affected my granddaughter Rosie’s bus ride home several times causing her bus to be rerouted. The first time this happened, the school called her mother, my daughter Rebecca, to tell her that Rosie would be …

Healing

In the New Testament and the early Christian church, healing was an essential aspect of Christian ministry and discipleship. It still plays a role in our churches and our liturgies, but I think most of us do not consider ourselves to be healers or to be called to heal. One reason for this is that …

What Should I Wear?

I recently went shopping for a new dress to wear to a wedding. I usually order my clothes online, but hoping to add something new and different to my wardrobe, I went to the mall. I re-discovered something I already knew. I really don’t like to shop, especially for myself. I don’t think anything fits …