Time is a constant in our lives but our relationship with it is always changing. I remember as a child, lying on my back on the floor and watching dust particles dancing in the sunlight. I had nothing else to do, no place to be, no one asking me to do anything, no thought that …
Pop-Tarts and a Biting Cat
A few weeks before my daughter Molly got married, I went with her for her final dress fitting. Molly’s best friend Betsy met us there and after the fitting the three of us had lunch together. Betsy is the daughter of one of my closest friends, Cathy, and because Cathy and I helped each other …
A Meek and Humble Heart
When I attended the Ph.D. program in Systematic Theology at Duquesne University, I had a marvelous professor named Dr. Marilyn Schaub. She taught Hebrew Bible and Palestinian Archeology and became my advisor and mentor. She retired when I was in my second year of the program but was kind enough to stay in touch. For …
Becoming Noticers
A few days ago, during a very intense and tension filled work week, I went to visit a friend and colleague in his office to ask him a few questions about a project on which we are both working. As I left my office, I wondered if I should put on the sweater I had …
Just Breathe
Our breath is connected to our life. This is a simple and obvious statement and yet within this simple statement there is much to explore. Genesis tells us that when God created the first human, he formed him out of the earth and then blew into him the breath of life and the human became …
Mercy
During mass on Good Friday, we sing a simple refrain quietly, meditatively repeating its few lines as we venerate the cross of Jesus Christ. Originally written by Jacques Berthier for the Taizé community near Cluny, Burgundy, both the tune and words are simple, Jesus remember me when you come into your kingdom. Jesus remember me …
Cultivating Spaciousness
We live in a culture that is uncomfortable and perhaps even hostile toward spaciousness. This crisis is apparent everywhere you look. It seems that no matter where you are there is an ever-present stream of pictures and sound. You find television screens in restaurants, waiting rooms in doctor’s offices, on airplanes, and on all sorts …
Solitude During the Pandemic
After John the Baptist is beheaded, Jesus withdraws to a deserted place by himself but is followed by a great crowd. The people in the crowd were not even wearing masks! When Jesus sees the many people that have followed him, he leaves his desired solitude behind and attends to the needs of the crowd, …
A God Who Waits
Karl Rahner, one of the most significant theologians of the twentieth century, wrote a collection of prayers called Encounters with Silence. In a chapter called, “God of My Prayer,” Rahner asks God some hard questions. He asks God how he can continue to pray when all he experiences is God’s silence. He proposes some possible …
Loneliness
When I was in my thirties and my children were in grade school, I attended Pittsburgh Theological Seminary. My commute to the seminary was one and half hours and because my children were young, I worked to fit a full-time schedule of classes into two days. This meant that after packing back packs and lunches …